October 1, 2022
Stand-up comic, actor (e.g., Netflix's Cobra Kai), and host of the No. 1 food podcast in the country, Green Eggs and Dan, Ahdoot uses an essay format in Undercooked to explain how food became a crutch and finally a dangerous obsession for him, starting with his brother's untimely death. Before he died of cancer, Braitman's father rushed to teach her important things like how to fix a carburetor and play good practical jokes; long after his death, she realized the cost of What Looks Like Bravery in suppressing her sorrow at his passing; following the New York Times best-selling Animal Madness. In Forager, journalism professor Dowd recalls her upbringing in the fervently Christian cult Field, founded by her domineering grandfather, where she was often cold, hungry, and abused and learned to put her trust in the natural world. Hospitalized from ages of 14 to 17 with anorexia nervosa, Freeman (House of Glass) recalls in Good Girls her subsequent years as a "functioning anorexic" and interviews doctors about new discoveries and treatments regarding the condition. In Happily, which draws on her Paris Review column of the same name, Mark uses fairytale to show how sociopolitical issues impact her own life, particularly as a Jewish woman raising Black children in the South. Philosophy professor Martin's How Not To Kill Yourself examines the mindset that has driven him to attempt suicide 10 times. Award-winning CBS journalist Miller here limns a sense of not Belonging: abandoned at birth by her mother, a Chicana hospital administrator who hushed up her affair with the married trauma surgeon (and Compton's first Black city councilman) who raised Miller, the author struggled to find her place in white-dominated schools and newsrooms and finally sought out her lost parent (60,000-copy first printing). From Mouton, Houston's first Black poet laureate and once ranked the No. 2 Best Female Performance Poet in the World (Poetry Slam Inc.), Black Chameleon relates an upbringing in a world devoid of the stories needed by Black children--which she argues women must now craft (60,000-copy first printing). A graduate of the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy for Girls in South Africa, Mount Holyoke College, and Columbia University, Ramotwala demonstrates The Will To Be in a memoir of early hardship (her mother's first-born daughter died in a firebombing before the author was born) and adjusting to life in the United States (75,000-copy first printing). In Stash, Robbins, host of the podcast The Only One in the Room, relates her recovery from dangerous drug use (e.g., stockpiling pills and scheduling withdrawals around PTA meetings and baby showers) as she struggles with being Black in a white world. Author of the multi-award-winning, multi-award-nominated No Visible Bruises, a study of domestic violence, Snyder follows up with Women We Buried, Women We Burned, her story of escaping the cult her widowed father joined and as a teenager making her way in the world (100,000-copy first printing).
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April 15, 2023
Snyder's most recent book, No Visible Bruises (2019), explored the psychological entanglements of domestic violence. This offering once again considers complex relationships, but at a personal level. The memoir begins with the death of Snyder's beloved, playful mother, who died from cancer when the author was seven. Snyder's bereft father returned to his Evangelical Christian roots and hastily remarried. His new wife, Barb, who dropped out of school at 16, married young, and then divorced her physically abusive first husband, stood in stark contrast to the author's sophisticated and well-educated Jewish mother. Barb tried to forge a new family, but Snyder was rebellious, getting expelled and experimenting with drugs, alcohol, and sex. The book details Snyder's ensuing homelessness, her many jobs and long climb back, the found family she made for herself and her daughter, and her eventual reconciliation with her father and stepmother--ironically, to nurse Barb through a fatal bout of cancer. At long last came conversation, healing, and the discovery of deep love--and now, this searingly honest and moving tribute.
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May 29, 2023
Journalist Snyder (No Visible Bruises) offers a penetrating memoir on grief and redemption. After her mother died when Snyder was eight years old, her father moved the family from Pennsylvania to Illinois, where he married a woman he met at an evangelical church. Snyder recounts her difficulty adjusting to her new life, highlighting the constant bickering between her, her brother, and their stepsiblings. The oppressive rules of evangelicalism, though, proved to be the hardest adjustment of all: “Cancer took my mother. But religion would take my life,” she writes. Eventually, Snyder’s teenage rebellion against religious strictures got her expelled from school and kicked out of her house. At age 16, she slept on friends’ couches and worked odd jobs while studying for her GED. In college, a study abroad trip sparked a lifelong love of travel, and Snyder became an international journalist, reporting on violence against women. Once she returned to the U.S., she and her father took unsteady steps toward reconciliation. Snyder delivers her inspiring story with lyrical prose and sharp insights, particularly about the fraught father-daughter relationship at its center. It’s an eloquent portrayal of the power of forgiveness. Agent: Susan Ramer, Don Congdon & Assoc.
Starred review from March 15, 2023
The propulsive, forceful account of a young woman making her way against the odds. Snyder, a professor of creative writing and journalism and the author of No Visible Bruises, a groundbreaking book on domestic violence, shares her own riveting story. The author lost her mother at age 8, and her grieving father threw her into an Evangelical stepfamily that operated with strict hierarchy, control, and violence. "Cancer took my mother," writes Snyder. "But religion would take my life." Now known for her extraordinary work as a far-flung journalist (in "Tibet, Nepal, India, Honduras, Guatemala, Mexico, Laos, Cuba, Belize, Romania," among other locales), as a teenager, the author abused drugs and failed out of high school after compiling "a combined GPA of 0.467." The tenacity and bravery of a young woman determined to survive and make her own mark on the world move the narrative with unstoppable force as the sentences build in intensity and poignancy. This chronicle of her journey from a troubled teen to globally recognized journalist and new mother is nearly impossible to put down. Most admirably, for all the failings of the adults in her life, Snyder manages the incredible feat of forgiveness. Without downplaying her frank depictions of abuse and neglect, she conveys as much hope as suffering, demonstrating "the bottomless capacity for both human cruelty and human survival." Writing with a highly effective mixture of distance, reflection, and compassion, the author never loses a palpable sense of immediacy. She has the ability to bring readers to her side, experiencing her life every step of the way. Her astonishing resilience and strength are front and center in her powerful, beautifully rendered prose, which describes her odyssey to "create a life in which I had something to lose." Anyone moved by No Visible Bruises should put this at the top of their to-read list. Exceptional writing, a harrowing coming-of-age story, and critical awareness combine to make a must-read memoir.
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